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kungfukitten - 2006-09-28 03:27:37
(((hug))) I know that feeling. I'm always the third wheel. I sit and watch everyone get nice relationships, get married, have kids, basically grow up and all I get is dysfunctional relationships or a lot of fucked up alone time. It'll get better. I promise.
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Leslie - 2006-09-28 08:24:27
I'm so sorry you're hurting. I've been there, too. Hang in there, though - it will bet better.
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Kaire - 2006-09-28 08:40:00
I've been there too. Hell, even in a relationship I sometimes feel so torn up inside from not having what I wish I had so much in life. There seem to be so many "why?" things and when they pile up, it hurts. It just aches so hard inside. It's a good thing to not be able to do what Kurt did. How different things could have been had he let out the hurt. How different it would be if we could all let out the hurt and feel like someone cares ... I know I'm just a stranger on the web, but I do care and I'm thinking of you!
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Bookafly - 2006-09-28 08:59:51
Always remember that you have a lot of people that care about you! Maybe you need to interact with more people that you know are available - internet dating perhaps? I know a lot of people who have met wonderful people online. Even if you're not wanting to be dating right now, maybe it would be a good way to meet more people in your area who may know other people who are single. Just a suggestion - my hugs go out to you!
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Andy - 2006-09-28 09:08:45
I think we have all been there, but it's like when it's happening it is so overwhelming (loneliness, that is) that it doesn't seem possible that anyone else can possibly identify with it. You were thinking about getting into therapy, and I know that for myself, once I began therapy again, it relaxed me somewhat and gave me a new sense of hope. I am only speaking for myself, of course, but it is helpful.
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Smed - 2006-09-28 09:49:45
Hugs to you....
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bathtubmary - 2006-09-29 13:17:52
i've been thinking about you a lot since yesterday. i don't know the right things to say when people are hurting and i don't know if it helps for me to say anything at all but please know you are loved and cared for. big, big hugs. xoxo, d
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